Sex and Singles
Everybody knows these negative feelings always ends – in someway – and the sun can really shine again, in fact. When the sun starts to shine again our genitals feel alive, again. So what do we do whit these “new feelings”? When we wake up from this numb-minding sleep full of misery and disgrace, we start to see the world around us: it is full of beauty and color; and then, we start a new approaching to our genitals, again.
When our hearts are healed and we are ready to face new sex, things can work a lot to help us out.
Of course it’s difficult to separate the ideas of the last body from our minds, but it can be really interesting to find out new places without maps.
The initial sensation is that we are hungry and thirsty at the same time, facing all that brave new world to be explored. If our last relationship were long dated, we will feel an incredible sensation touching other bodies and the excitation will be doubled. But we must realize that this initial feeling must be controlled, so we can make a good sexual performance. The thought of satisfying the partner can never go away from our minds.
People can not forget that there are two persons involved in the sex act. The exploring must be followed by respect and care. The word “hurry” must be erased from our vocabulary. To pay attention on what we are doing and how we are heading to orgasm is very important, because the other part is part of it.
The important when we are exploring new bodies and we are used to other one, is to “work” in the other’s pleasure, first. This is not a rule. It is a tip. This will make your partner to feel all right with you; and you with your ego.
Before you work on your own pleasure, it would not be wrong to give a handjob to your partner and make him/her cum. After that, an oral sex would only help to increase her/his pleasure – make her/he to cum again. After these two “works, you can think about penetration and satisfying yourself. Highlighting again, it is not a rule; it is a tip.

